August 17, 2017 at 4:52 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”

“I have decided to stick to love…Hate is too great a burden to bear.”

“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.”

“In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”

Martin Luther King Jr.


Is there ever a day?

August 15, 2017 at 10:09 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Is there ever a day… a set of comments by Mr Trump… that is not worse than the prior comments he has made? Is there ever a day – regardless of your political beliefs – that you can feel that our country has leadership that is thoughtful, caring, rational, consumed by a sense of what is good, is best for all Americans? Who can feel hopeful about the direction our country is getting and taking. Please explain it to me because I cannot share in the hope. This is not about conservatives or independents or liberals…it is about what is best for America and (all) Americans

I am confused!

August 13, 2017 at 6:38 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

I am confused: I have always thought that the person who becomes our president, regardless of their individual views and values, becomes the president of all of us. They then become entrusted with the duty of carrying out and certifying the values of our country. Am I wrong.? I may disagree with the economic theory that the president espouses. I may disagree with the approach that they choose to take in regard to international relations. I should never have to concern myself, however, with the disquieting sense that my president, the president for all of us, does not also hold to the values that our country holds near and dear, I should not have to concern myself with the fact that, although I may not agree with the president’s policies, those policies are being executed in the belief that they will lead to a safer life for all Americans, a better standard of living for all Americans, a healthier ecology for all future generations of Americans [and others], a moral commitment to our constitution and to our bill of rights……. Am I wrong?

Where is the hope?

August 8, 2017 at 8:53 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

I cannot remember what it feels like to actually feel hopeful.  The world is spinning and it becomes evermore challenging to try to spin with it.  Is it a function of the way our country is being led [or not]?  Is it a function of the geometric impact of technological advance?  Is it the ever increasing isms in our culture [racism, classism, isolationism, facebookism, instagramism, ageism, etc]?  Is it the fact that I am now part of the older citizen demographic?  Of course, it is a blend, a compendium of these factors.  What to do?  How to move forward?  How to address all the fear and distrust and hate that seems to be the prevailing climate?  I wish I knew!

I try to face each day as if the glass is half full and it is my responsibility to fill it the rest of the way. I try to make a difference.  I face the responsibility of being responsible for my actions as well as for the well-being of my family and those I care about.  I own the responsibility for being a productive citizen of this world, of caring about people and pets, life and land.  I see Black lives matter, Cop lives matter…..I think all lives matter.  Yet we continue to demean personal dignity and now live in a autocratic meritocracy that does not feel the same way…that accepts…no demands that there be a totally dependent underclass.  Their sense of entitlement and superiority is maddening!

Where do I fit?  How do I proceed?  What can I do?

The Trump Psychodrama

July 12, 2017 at 10:34 am | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

As upsetting as the Trump psychodrama is, what is less obvious but more upsetting is what is (not) happening in our country. We have a Republican (supposedly) president ( actually a monarchist) a Republican cabinet, a Republican House and a Republican senate….. A mass of white men hell bent on serving the 1%… And government has been by proclamation rather than by discussion, dialogue, studied presentations and a vision of what is good for all of us………yet not one piece of meaningful legislation has been actually enacted. Who is governing our country? Who is looking out for the well-being and safety of our citizens?

Are people actually that distracted by claims of false news that the facts mean nothing?


THE DIRTY DOZEN: Common Everyday Actions That Assholes Use

June 28, 2017 at 6:46 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment


  1. Personal Insults
  2. Invading One’s ‘Personal Territory’
  3. Uninvited Physical Contact
  4. Threats And Intimidation, Both Verbal And Non-Verbal
  5. Sarcastic Jokes And Teasing Used As Insult Delivery Systems
  6. Withering E-Mail Flames
  7. Status Slaps Intended To Humiliate Their Victims
  8. Public Shaming Or Status Degradation Rituals
  9. Rude Interruptions
  10. Two-Faced Attacks
  11. Dirty Looks
  12. Treating People As If They Are Invisible

The No Asshole Rule by Robert I. Sutton, PhD

Where am I

June 28, 2017 at 2:25 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

I do not usually use this blog for venting my personal stuff…in fact, I do not use this blog for very much.  I guess that I am trying something new.  I have reached an interesting point:  a crossroads of sorts, a tipping point perhaps.  I am rather intelligent with a still quick mind and a fairly highly developed moral code.  At the same time, I am not sure that I fit anywhere!  I wonder what I have brought to the world and to my community and to those that are important to me?  I will hear all of the platitudes from people but so what?  How do I feel as an American of advanced age, without financial stability, with newly discovered health concerns, without a daily mission?

I / we are bombarded daily with sad evidence of our cultural lack of community concern and civility.  I admit to feeling hurt and angered by this situation and it further creates emotional unrest for me.  I feel powerless!




May 31, 2017 at 3:47 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Our nation’s budget should reflect our nation’s professed values, but President Trump’s 2018 Federal Budget, “A New Foundation for America’s Greatness,” radically does the opposite. This immoral budget declares war on America’s children, our most vulnerable group, and the foundation of our nation’s current and future economic, military and leadership security. It cruelly dismantles and shreds America’s safety net laboriously woven over the past half century to help and give hope to the 14.5 million children struggling today in a sea of poverty, hunger, sickness, miseducation, homelessness and disabilities. It slashes trillions of dollars from health care, nutrition and other critical programs that give poor babies and children a decent foundation in life to assure trillions of dollars in tax cuts for millionaires and billionaires and powerful corporations who do not deserve massive doses of government support.

The cruel Trump budget invests more in our military — already the most costly in the world — but denies vulnerable children and youths the income, health care, food, housing and education supports they need to become strong future soldiers to defend our country. Seventy-one percent of our 17-24 year olds are now ineligible for military service because of health and education deficits. It seeks to build a wall to keep immigrants out by slashing supports for those inside who can be counted on to help staff our businesses and factories and other services. This budget creates more inequality and less opportunity for those struggling to make ends meet and is a grave injustice.

President Trump invests in fighting those he sees as outside enemies through weapons and walls and turns his back on the internal enemies that threaten the basic domestic needs of our people — health care, housing, education and jobs that pay living wages. The Congress and the people of the United States must reject President Trump’s 2018 Budget and the mean spirited values it reflects. It declares war on children and working people struggling to support their families by ignoring even their most basic needs and gives trillions to those who do not need massive government support – especially at a time of record wealth and income inequality.

The President’s 2018 Budget:

  • Slashes $610 billion over ten years from Medicaid which nearly 37 million children rely on for a healthy start in life and which pays for nearly half of all births and ensures coverage for 40 percent of our children with special health care needs. The budget also assumes passage of the more than $800 billion additional cuts in Medicaid included in the American Health Care Act for a total Medicaid massacre of more than $1.4 trillion over ten years. 
  • Rips $5.7 billion from CHIP (Children’s Health Insurance Program), which covers nearly 9 million children in working families ineligible for Medicaid. The proposed cap on CHIP funding for families at 250 percent of the poverty level threatens coverage for millions of children in the 24 states and the District of Columbia that have chosen to extend coverage to children in families with slightly higher incomes.
  • Snatches food out of the mouths and stomachs of hungry children by slicing $193 billion over ten years from the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP), which some still call food stamps. SNAP feeds nearly 46 million people including nearly 20 million children. This cut is an unprecedented 25 percent reduction in a core safety net program that in 2014 lifted 4.7 million people, including 2.1 million children, out of poverty. For the 4.9 million households, 1.3 million with children, with no cash income who rely only on SNAP to keep the wolves of hunger from their doors, these cuts would be a catastrophic assault.
  • Chops $22 billion over ten years from TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families Program) including $6 billion that eliminates the TANF Contingency Fund which helps support some of our neediest families. Slashes programs to assist families with housing and end homelessness by $7.4 billion, a 15 percent cut for 2018 including $2.3 billion from Housing Choice Vouchers, which would leave more than 250,000 low income households without them; $1.8 billion — nearly 29 percent — from public housing already in desperate need of repair and expansion; and $133 million — 5.6 percent — from homeless assistance grants.
  • Whacks $72 billion over ten years from the Supplemental Security Income Program (SSI), which more than 8 million children and adults with the most severe disabilities depend on to keep going. Despite the President’s promise not to cut Social Security, his budget cuts $48 billion from Social Security Disability Insurance which assists, among others, grandparents and other relatives raising children because their parents cannot care for them.
  • Cuts $40 billion over ten years from the Child Tax Credit (CTC) and Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC) by barring tax-paying undocumented immigrant workers, many with American citizen children, from benefiting from the Child Tax Credit unless they have a Social Security number, and making it harder for them to benefit from the Earned Income Tax Credit created to reward hard work and help parents support their children.
  • Slashes job training programs by $1.1 billion, or 40 percent, over ten years for youths, adults and dislocated workers.  It denigrates the concept of public service jobs by eliminating the Corporation for National and Community Service, and with it AmeriCorps, Vista and Senior Corps.
  • Cuts federal education funding $9.2 billion in 2018 alone at a time when a majority of children in all racial and economic groups cannot read or compute at grade level. It slashes $143 billion over ten years from student loans by eliminating the loan program that encourages graduates to take public service jobs and restricts other programs that subsidize college education for first generation college students and others from low income families. And it proposes to add $1 billion in new funding for the Title I program for disadvantaged students, which has historically supplemented resources for students in schools in areas of concentrated poverty, but for the wrong reason. It proposes to fund a new school choice initiative to let children draw Title I funds away from schools in the neediest areas and take them to schools in higher income areas.
  • Shears $54 billion in 2018 ($1.6 trillion over 10 years) in non-defense discretionary programs which include a broad range of health, early childhood, education, child welfare and juvenile justice programs as well as environmental protection, foreign assistance, medical and scientific research and other federal government programs. The Trump budget would reduce spending for these important programs 2 percent a year for the next ten years.
  • Zeroes out funding for the Legal Services Corporation to deny the poor their only option to defend themselves against injustice.
  • Eliminates core programs that offer extra assistance to low income children, families and communities including the Social Service Block Grant ($1.4 billion in 2018 alone, $16.3 billion over 10 years); the Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program to ward off heat in the summer and cold in winter months ($3.4 billion); the Department of Housing and Urban Development’s HOME, Community Development Block Grant, Indian Community Development Block Grant, and Choice Neighborhood programs ($4.1 billion), and the National Housing Trust Fund which provides funds to states and local communities to develop affordable rental housing; the Community Services Block Grant (CSBG) programs that include CSBG ($723.6 million), Community Economic Development program ($29.8 million) and Rural Community Facilities ($6.5 million).
  • Axes the 21st Century Community Learning Program that offers programs to curb summer learning loss and keep children safe and engaged through after school programs for 1.6 million children; the Preschool Development Grants which went to 18 states to improve and expand access to high-quality preschool for children in high-needs communities; and the Child Care Access Means Parents in School program for parents enrolled in college to assist in child care costs.

At the same time, President Trump’s 2018 Budget includes an estimated $5 trillion tax package for the wealthiest individuals and corporations who neither need nor deserve massive government support and dramatically increases spending on defense and border security. The Trump budget:

  • Increases base defense spending $54 billion in 2018 alone (and $489 billion over ten years). That’s $147,945,205 a day, $6,164,384 an hour and $102,739 a minute. The U.S. military budget is already the largest military budget in the world.  We spend more on the military than the next eight countries combined (China, Russia, Saudi Arabia, India, France, United Kingdom, Japan, and Germany).
  • Spends $2.6 billion new dollars on border security including $1.6 billion for a down payment on the President’s proposed obscene wall at the Mexican border estimated to cost $10 to $20 billion before completion and after false campaign promises that the Mexican government would pay.

This draconian budget slashes over $3 trillion dollars in the next decade and tramples America’s values and is anti-child, anti-poor, and anti-low-income working people. It erodes the security of our nation’s future.

President Dwight Eisenhower, a five star general and World War II hero, understood that throwing money at the military could not be an excuse for assaulting the poor and stealing from our children, saying, “Every gun that is made, every warship launched, every rocket fired, signifies…a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are cold and are not clothed. This world in arms is not spending money alone. It is spending the sweat of its laborers, the genius of its scientists, and the hope of its children.”

The Trump budget would not pass the test of any great faith or standard of fairness. It must be rejected resoundingly by the Congress and the American people.

May 11, 2017 at 11:18 am | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

“The test of our progress is not whether we add more to the abundance of those who have much; it is whether we provide enough for those who have too little.”
Franklin D. Roosevelt

Poverty [cont.]

May 9, 2017 at 1:30 pm | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Being able to physically fight or have someone who is willing to fight for you is important to survival in poverty.  Yet, in the middle class, being able to use words as tools to negotiate conflict is crucial.  Many times the fist are used in poverty because the words are neither available nor respected

Dr. Ruby Payne, Phillip E. DeVol & Terie D. Smith [2001] Bridges Out of Poverty, [p.43], Highlands, Aha! Process, Inc.

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